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Lindsay Lohan's Fight for Marriage Equality

She's young, she's messy, she fights with her sometime girlfriend, and she's been to rehab -- but she's leading the charge for marriage equality in the process.


COMMENTARY: Lindsay Lohan's recently released faux eHarmony profile is perhaps the most brilliant 90 seconds in the young actor's career. She simultaneously manages to poke fun at herself, her relationship with Sam Ronson, and eHarmony -- a homophobic dating website that would never allow her to post an ad looking for a "man or a woman."

But when I posted a link to the video on my Facebook page, I received comments like "she's young and immature and well -- who cares?"

The answer: I care. Deeply. And so should anyone who's concerned with the future of queer rights and visibility in the United States.

It can't be stated strongly enough: Lindsay Lohan is unlike any other LGBT celebrity to come before her. She's young, she's beautiful, she's A-list -- and at the top of her career, she began publicly dating a woman. This is not the coy "maybe/maybe-not" game that other young celebs have played, or the outing of a former star. It's worlds beyond the occasional kiss or the admission of having "dated women in the past," which until now was the most radical truth that Hollywood stars would own up to.

While never choosing a label and avoiding public statements, Lindsay Lohan lived her relationship with Sam Ronson in the public eye almost exactly, one feels, as she would have had she not been famous. They partied, they made out, they fought, they bought groceries. And yes, I read about it every time. Not just because I love gossip, but because Lindsay Lohan is both representative of and at the forefront of an important cultural shift in the way sexuality plays out in the public sphere. She is the first of a new post-identity wave.

And it is this same wave that is helping to win the fight for same-sex marriage -- as well as other queer issues like adoption by same-sex parents, hate-crimes bills, and discrimination protections. In the aftermath of the Prop. 8 vote in California, an important set of data came out: 63% of voters ages 18 to 29 rejected the initiative, but 54% of voters 45 to 64 supported it.

If that's not a generational shift, then what is?

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Reader Comments
  • Name: PJ
    Date posted: 4/27/2009 7:32:00 PM
    Hometown: Toronto

    Comment:

    Oh yes, she's so great that she hasn't had a hit film, can't get film offers because she's uninsurable, and has addiction problems and violent streaks. Such a role model. And yes, I'm over 30 and never did drugs or chased people down in my car. So I'm throwing the first stone.

  • Name: Carrie Newman
    Date posted: 4/27/2009 6:39:00 PM
    Hometown: Ottumwa

    Comment:

    Jennifer, Angelina Jolie came out as bisexual long before Lindsay Lohan. Just because she didn't have a female partner doesn't make it any less brave.

  • Name: Andrea
    Date posted: 4/27/2009 5:28:00 PM
    Hometown: Houston

    Comment:

    the bottom line is that Lindsey's life is making it easier for queer kids to be accepted, and not be as discriminated against as we of the older generation have been...the 20 yo from Georgia made an excellent point: equal rights would be great to have, but it's the day to day that affects us most deeply, and if her Mom is ok talking with her about her life b/c of anything Lindsey Lohan did regarding being open with her own life, then that is powerful and meaningful and brave, and she deserves to be applauded for whatever contribution she is making to history and the movement

  • Name: L.A. supporter
    Date posted: 4/27/2009 4:20:00 PM
    Hometown: Los Angeles

    Comment:

    What 22 year old doesn't have relationship drama? It's just unfortunate the Lindsay and Sam's is in the public eye. And what about those idiot paparazzi chasing her everywhere she goes. Talk about pressure! How would you do with absolutely no privacy? I'd probably crack. THANK YOU LINDSAY ! You are incredibly brave !

  • Name: Bob
    Date posted: 4/27/2009 11:09:00 AM
    Hometown: Springfield, NJ

    Comment:

    After reading some of these posts about Lindsay Lohan from obviously bitter and unhappy people, I can't for the life of me imagine why gay people have gotten the reputation for being "bitchy".

  • Name: Susan Ross
    Date posted: 4/27/2009 11:08:00 AM
    Hometown: Greenfield Park

    Comment:

    Kudos to Lindsay and anyone else who believes in something so strongly to stand up and fight for it.

  • Name: Pauline
    Date posted: 4/26/2009 10:52:00 PM
    Hometown: San Mateo

    Comment:

    Gay or not, out or closeted, this girl's career is over. O-V-E-R. Next!

  • Name: Lula
    Date posted: 4/26/2009 10:50:00 PM
    Hometown: San Francisco

    Comment:

    What a mess!

  • Name: L
    Date posted: 4/26/2009 6:11:00 PM
    Hometown: San Francisco

    Comment:

    Thank you for recognizing Lindsay! I admire her visibility and label-lessness, and I wish the best for her. So many people get bogged down in the details of her past without looking at the larger picture, but you have brought the lens back into focus (on the larger picture). Thank you!

  • Name: Trish
    Date posted: 4/26/2009 2:42:00 PM
    Hometown: Miami

    Comment:

    Lindsay is a gorgeous, sexy brave girl. Name me just one young, beautiful Hollywood girl who went on Ellen and talked about her relationship with a girl like it was nothing. God bless her.

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