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Bullying Drove 11-Year-old to Suicide


The mother of an 11-year-old sixth-grader who committed suicide by wrapping an extension cord around his neck and hanging himself says her son's death could have been prevented -- he was a victim of school bullying, she says.

Sirdeaner L. Walker said she found her son Carl Joseph Walker-Hoover dead on the second floor of their Springfield, Mass., home. She said he had endured another day of teasing from his fellow classmates.

"I just want to help some other child," she said. "I know there are other kids being picked on, and it's day in and day out."

Carl played football, basketball, and was a boy scout -- but that didn't stop other kids from picking on him, his mom said. Students called him gay and made fun of him for the way he dressed.

Sirdeaner Walker said she began phoning his school repeatedly when Carl first told her about the bullying last September, but she says the school was unresponsive.

In a recent study of middle-school-aged children, more than 10% reported they have been victims of bullying. Walker says that she is angry with the school for not taking action, and she hopes to make a difference by speaking out.

"If anything can come of this, it's that another child doesn't have to suffer like this and there can be some justice for some other child. I don't want any other parent to go through this," she said.

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Reader Comments
  • Name: ANA
    Date posted: 4/22/2009 5:34:00 PM
    Hometown: Tennessee

    Comment:

    I am a child of 7 and attending college at the moment. Being so far away from my sibilings and hearing about something like this happening, truly rips my heart out. I wish that I could be there everday and go to school with them 24/7, but I can't. It is hard for anyone to know if someone is getting bullied unless they are told. The first sign of bullying and IT SHOULD BE STOPPED and HANDLED IMMEDIATLY! No one deserves to feel like they have no reason to live! God gives you LIFE and it is your choice what you do with it, including how you treat others. I believe that each and every kid should be told EVERYDAY how important they are. And to explain to them that if they hold their head high and reach for their goals, that LIFE will present them with amazing opportunities. And when people say things that aren't true, you just whisp it away, take a deep breath, and say..."What the Future has in store for me is worth forgetting about what they said!"

  • Name: Melanie
    Date posted: 4/22/2009 5:03:00 AM
    Hometown: NYC

    Comment:

    I feel very strongly that if your child is being bullied, go straight to the parents of the bully. Of course, notify the administration, but also go to the parents and threaten them with a lawsuit. Money talks and if parents think that they will be sued for their child's behavior, you watch them take action. Personally, if my child were being bullied, I would go straight to the bully and threaten him with physical harm myself.

  • Name: tanesha taylor
    Date posted: 4/21/2009 11:46:00 AM
    Hometown: delaware

    Comment:

    i think the mom was wrong in the whole thing because of her parinting if she would have raised her son with an mintilaity of high confidence but ahh..she should have went to the school the first time because of what he told her and bulling.which is a very serious addfence i think it could have ben permited if she would of took care of it a long time ago.

  • Name: ForcewForcwe
    Date posted: 4/20/2009 1:59:00 AM
    Hometown: Hawaii

    Comment:

    We can't let anyone forget that a life was taken and this crime was perpetrated by someone with an intent to harm. We should look at every child suicide to determine if Bullying was perpetrated. If so, we should not hesitate to file legal charges. Don't let bullies get away with this senseless crime. We should not rest until justice is brought about in this case.

  • Name: Helena Clinton
    Date posted: 4/18/2009 3:41:00 AM
    Hometown: DuBois

    Comment:

    I am the parent of a child who is bullied every day in school. It breaks my heart to see this happen to any child. The kids that pick on others are the rich, blonde, skinny, smart popular kids who will be the first to say "Why did this have to happen at our school?" Teachers need to be aware of what is going on in the schools all over the country. Most turn their backs when it comes down to helping a bullied child because the parent's of the bullier are rich or popular. Kids need to be taught that bullying is wrong and teachers need to become more aware of what they are allowing to go on in their classrooms. We are all responsible for the Columbine schools of America, but who is going to stand up and take the credit for them????

  • Name: Deborah Arvesen
    Date posted: 4/17/2009 8:07:00 PM
    Hometown: Boyd, TX

    Comment:

    Harassing & bullying others for any reason is uncalled for. Are parents of the children who treated this child so outrageously aware of what their children do at school? School authorities who are aware of instances like this should be held accountable by law. I cried when I saw the news report on the 11 year old child who felt his only escape from the bullies was to take his own life. Shame on any of you who support hazing and harassment in school regardless of what the "excuse" is. My prayers go out to all families & children who are victims of this outrage.

  • Name: UNKNOWN
    Date posted: 4/17/2009 4:52:00 PM
    Hometown: PITTSFIELD

    Comment:

    I'M 11 YEARS OLD AND I FEEL BAD BECAUSE HIS BIRTHDAY IS FRIDAY AND HE KILLED HIMSELF BEFORE EASTER.AND I KNOW SOME ONE THAT THINKS HE IS HOT.

  • Name: Aj
    Date posted: 4/16/2009 6:30:00 PM
    Hometown: Augusta

    Comment:

    I`m 11 and I don`t like to hear about things about little kids my age.

  • Name: Anderson
    Date posted: 4/16/2009 3:56:00 PM
    Hometown: Atlanta

    Comment:

    I moved to Georgia from Miami with my 13 year son Then he was 10. He was teased alot because he was around more over privilege kids and they are not aggressive at all. Coming to Georgia was a culture/reality check for him and he had a very hard time because of bullies. They teased him, calle dhim gay, white boy etc... He cried constantly and almost everyday. I work very hard with him and so did male influences. So far he is ok but still have more to work on. It is very heart breaking and we blame ourselves as single mothers. Try your best to have a male cuz or brother or even a friend as a good influence. Thank You

  • Name: Cara
    Date posted: 4/15/2009 9:04:00 PM
    Hometown: McDonough

    Comment:

    I am a mother of a 10yr. old girl in the fourth grade. She has endured a year or more of being called names that I didn't know until high school or college. We went through the school and tried to do all the "right" things. We got nowhere. The schools seem to protect the bully, not the bullied. I am wanting to fight this as far as necessary to change the school policy. Parents MUST act to stop or control this verbal assault against children by children. I have recently withdrawn my daughter from school due to the lack of support of the school to protect her. We are homeschooling and she is doing well. I am positive that if she stayed in that environment, the end result would be similar. It is a shame that kids being assaulted have to be removed from the class or school. What happened to punishing the bullys?????????????????????????????????????????

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