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Marriage Foe Pledges $125K for Gays



Doug Manchester, chairman of Manchester Financial Group and owner of the Manchester Grand Hyatt in San Diego and the San Diego Marriott Hotel & Marina, among other properties, donated $125,000 to support Prop. 8. Since that time, Manchester, who goes by "Papa Doug," has seen his hotels become a victim of a boycott organized by Californians Against Hate.

However, at Friday's International Gay and Lesbian Travel Association convention in Toronto, Kelly Cummerford, director of sales for Manchester Grand Hyatt, announced that Manchester was donating $25,000 in support of LGBT causes and an additional $100,000 in the form of hotel credits to be used by LGBT organizations for fund-raising events. When Cummerford, who also announced today that he is married to a man in the military, got up to speak he was met with some boos and hisses from the audience.

Manchester has also retained publicist Howard Bragman, the openly gay public relations/crisis management veteran who was hired by former Grey's Anatomy star Isaiah Washington after reportedly directing an antigay slur at costar T.R. Knight. He has also handled the coming-out process for Rosie Jones, the WNBA's Sheryl Swoopes, and retired NBA player John Amaechi.

Bragman says that $25,000 will go directly to LGBT civil rights groups, for which a committee is forming to determine how it will be allocated. The other $100,000 will go toward LGBT events such as fund-raisers in the form of credit at the Grand Hyatt. Bragman, an activist for gay rights, came out in favor of boycotting companies who donated in favor of Proposition 8 in an editorial he wrote for the The Huffington Post when an owner of the restaurant El Coyote was discovered to have donated in favor of the measure.

But speaking of his client, Bragman told The Advocate on Friday that "Mr. Manchester's beliefs were clearly misconstrued. He did give $125,000 to Yes on 8 and he is opposed to the concept of religious gay marriage. However, he is in no way homophobic and is 100% in favor of gay people having every legal right that straight people have. This is an attempt to clarify his position."

However this effort has not impressed Fred Karger, the head of Californians Against Hate.

"It's an insult to the gay and lesbian community and our labor allies that he is attempting after 10 months to go around us and buy his way out of this boycott," he said. Karger settled two of the four boycotts he began against companies in the wake of Proposition 8. High-end juicemakers Bolthouse Farms settled after five weeks of negotiations, and now according to Karger they have changed their company policy and have since given $110,000 to various organizations.

Karger insists Manchester's move is largely for show and largely financial.

"Manchester told [Cummerford] that he had lost $7 million due to this boycott," he says. "If that is the number he admits to, then I assume it is a lot higher. Our boycott has been very effective. For example, the latest blow is the National Trial Lawyers Association, who just announced that they were moving their convention of 2,000 lawyers not only from Manchester's hotel but from San Diego entirely. Their event is in July and they are moving to San Francisco, so at great expense to them, in order to show solidarity."

As for how the money will be allocated Karger says he initially heard it was going to the Human Rights Campaign, but David Smith, vice president of programs for HRC, told him that they turned down the money. "In either case it's a divide-and-conquer attempt," Karger said. He added, "It is a step but this is not the way a boycott is ended. And though we would be happy to sit down with him at anytime to discuss this, until then our boycott will continue with more resolve."

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Reader Comments
  • Name: Brad Bailey
    Date posted: 5/15/2009 3:25:00 AM
    Hometown: Fayetteville, Arkansas

    Comment:

    Hi George. I don't know if you'll see this post or not. I appreciate your positive comments. I tried to email you at the address you listed, but kept getting a message saying that your address was not properly formatted. I have no idea what that means. If you read this post, double-check your address. If it's different from the one you originally posted, try re-posting it. I'll check back to this blogsite occasionally. Thanks a lot. Regards, Brad

  • Name: George McAllister
    Date posted: 5/13/2009 1:31:00 PM
    Hometown: Montgomery, AL

    Comment:

    Mr. Bailey: You're too kind. I'm certainly no expert on the topic, but I do try to keep informed about things that so directly affect my life. I must say, too, that it's refreshing to see someone commenting on a website who doesn't come off like a complete nutjob. If only the web had more people like you. In the meantime, I really don't think 1000 character article comments are an adequate place to chat philosophy. If you'd like, drop me an e-mail and I'll be happy to point you to some resources and readings. a n t i f a m i l y m a n g @ g m a i l . c o m

  • Name: Simon
    Date posted: 5/12/2009 4:50:00 AM
    Hometown: London, UK

    Comment:

    Is there a list of companies and organisations to boycott? I live in Europe (UK) and I'm pretty sure some will operate over here. I'd like to show solidarity and make sure my money doesn't go to bigots like this.

  • Name: Brad Bailey
    Date posted: 5/11/2009 6:32:00 PM
    Hometown: Fayetteville, Arkansas

    Comment:

    Roger: According to your logic, that makes the president of the United States a bigot, as well as a majority of U.S. citizens. Homosexuals are a minority: we only represent two to five percent of the population. Deal with it!

  • Name: Katie Murphy
    Date posted: 5/11/2009 4:11:00 PM
    Hometown: Philadelphia

    Comment:

    I have to ask................. Is this real or just BS. $100k is only coupons or discounts to stay at his hotel, wonder about blackout days, is it 1:1 $ on bill, or eg can only use it against 20% of bill. Don't know. Many retail deals like this are scams. Or is this just poisoning the well. He knows it will prob be unacceptable, and then he can go claim "ungrateful bastards", and carry on. That would be just another lie from the so called religious right.

  • Name: Jerry
    Date posted: 5/11/2009 3:39:00 PM
    Hometown: Washington DC

    Comment:

    Mr. Bailey, just saying that not all heterosexual couples produce babies is a weak argument. The argument is that none of the 50 states nor the District of Columbia require the production of children as a prerequisite for obtaining a civil marriage license and no state has ever forced a married couple to obtain a divorce because they couldn't or wouldn't have children. I have never attended a religious marriage where the officiant did not conclude with a statement to the effect, now by the power vested in me by the state______(enter whatever jurisdiction, I pronounce you man and wife. Religious groups have been given the ability to conduct civil contracts in a religious setting. That privilege could be removed. States could take on the same forms as many European countries and have civil marriages completely separate from religious marriages.

  • Name: Harmon
    Date posted: 5/11/2009 12:23:00 PM
    Hometown: Greenville, NC

    Comment:

    True contrition is at least proportional to the damage done. 25$K & gimme your convention business is a joke. When Dougie's businesses have all gone bankrupt When Dougie's lost every penny he had When Dougie's is homeless, trying to make it on the street Then give me a call Then maybe I'll give him the business.

  • Name: Crusader
    Date posted: 5/11/2009 10:55:00 AM
    Hometown: Palm Springs, CA

    Comment:

    Howard Bragman has earned the title of Bumhole of the Month for May! Read all about it in Crusader's Corner blog. I am not allowed to post a link here, but you can easily find it by doing a Google search for "Bragman bumhole."

  • Name: Roger
    Date posted: 5/11/2009 9:37:00 AM
    Hometown: San Francisco

    Comment:

    Brad Bailey - You choose to make your personal bneliefs my business when you use those beliefs to take away my rights. No is forced to vote on anything. voting my rights away, even if voting you conscience, is the deliberate actions of a bigot. In the past, voting to refuse African Americans their right to marry was also be considered the acts of a racial bigot. Any effort that is made to destroy anothers equal rights, and furthur oprress them is in fact Bigotry, regardless of how you want to rationalize it.

  • Name: Lieven
    Date posted: 5/11/2009 7:59:00 AM
    Hometown: Brussels, Belgium

    Comment:

    A marriage contract which gives us civil rights, is a civil contract. The religious argument retains no water: a same-sex marriage contract is not "anti-religious", because it is a civil contract. BTW: marriage as we know it today, and which anti-gay activist are all crazy about, is a romantic construction of the 19th century. Before that, only a minority of people got married, and that minority got married because of political reasons (dynastic) or financial reasons (combining the fortunes of different families). So all this crap that I am offending someone's religious beliefs because I am able to conclude a contract that gives me civil rights is illogical at best. BTW, I am a Belgian married to an American, living in my capital in Brussels. We have same-sex marriage here and the skies have not fallen down yet. There is no wiggle room: you are for or against gay marriage. Being against gay marriage but for civil unions is just another way of declaring yourself a bigot.

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