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Respecting Marriage

The introduction of the Respect for Marriage Act has moved us one step closer to marriage equality, and when you think about it, the name says it all. This isn't about marriage. It's about respect.

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COMMENTARY: With the introduction of the Respect for Marriage Act, gay and lesbian couples moved one step closer to marriage equality in America. The big question: Will that be enough to really effect change in places where gays are still ostracized and treated as second-class citizens?
 
The bill, introduced in the U.S. House on September 15 by Democratic representatives Jerrold Nadler of New York, Tammy Baldwin of Wisconsin, and Jared Polis of Colorado, seeks to repeal the Defense of Marriage Act, signed into law in 1996 by President Bill Clinton. In an interesting twist, Clinton is a major backer of the new bill, saying, "Throughout my life I have opposed discrimination of any kind. When the Defense of Marriage Act was passed, gay couples could not marry anywhere in the United States or the world for that matter. Thirteen years later, the fabric of our country has changed, and so should this policy."

Joining Clinton in the move to repeal DOMA is the bill's original sponsor, former representative Bob Barr, a Republican from Georgia, who was joined by 91 original backers of the bill now seeking for its full repeal.
 
So if someone like Barr, who introduced DOMA, can step back and realize that the world has changed and that we need to move toward a direction of equality, why is it so difficult for so many around the country to see clearly on this issue?
 
At almost the same time the Respect for Marriage Act was introduced, Iowa businessman Bob Vander Plaats announced his candidacy for the Republican nomination to unseat incumbent Iowa governor Chet Culver. This will be Vander Plaats's third attempt at that office, and he has been openly critical that his state, under Culver's leadership, has allowed same-sex couples full marriage rights -- following the state supreme court's unanimous April 2009 decision declaring Iowa's same-sex marriage ban unconstitutional. Vander Plaats declared that, if elected, he would issue an executive order to prevent future gay marriages and would put the issue in the hands of Iowa voters and the state's legislature.
 

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  • Name: Michael
    Date posted: 10/6/2009 12:54:09 PM
    Hometown: Atlanta

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    It seems simplistic to me. Social justice will never be handed over to us unless we rise up and only support politicians are willing to advance full GLBT equality. My partner and I have also stopped supporting homophobic religious institutions that repress and hate us. Its good to remember the civil rights movement for the African American community advanced only after equality was demanded; not whined for. Its time to take courage and act the hell up.

  • Name: Michael R
    Date posted: 10/6/2009 9:58:57 AM
    Hometown: Fort Lauderdale

    Comment:

    This is an excellent article with a refreshing perspective. Thank uou, Ari, you rock! On a side note, bring back "Swingtown!" I want to know what happens next, I'm still hanging off that cliff they left us on. The characters were wild & wonderful and man, they captured a delicious slice of the mid 70s, spot-on. Ah, those were the days. The world was young and we were free and nothing was going to stop us from celebrating who we were.

  • Name: Scott
    Date posted: 10/5/2009 9:53:58 PM
    Hometown: Portland

    Comment:

    I have asked people why they voted against same sex marriage in Oregon, some dont feel comfortable talking about it but one person told me that she is catholic and her church taught her that all gay people are pedophiles. Althought she added that she doesnt think its true, she still feels compelled to vote as her church tells her to. For others I get the feeling that some straight people simply do not want to be equated to gay people, and look for the law to create a social segregation to make them feel comfortable. This is like telling a gay person he must ride in the back of the bus, basicly. It is good to see that people are speaking out more, like meghan mccain and bill clinton, and it is good that there are people in both main parties that agree that the time has come to end the discrimination against gay people. Me, I will continue to be open and honest with people and will continue to seek that "good reason" some people have for voting pro-discrimination.



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