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Dude worship on YouTube

Images of puffed-up bodybuilders made popular in 1950s publications are alive and well as videos on the Internet. Only now they’re creating a new connection between gay and straight men.


Somewhere in America, a fit, tan, hairless 19-year-old straight boy who goes by the online name “Weatiez” demonstrates calisthenics while standing in his bedroom with a poster of a hot blond topless chick on the wall behind him. He’s the kind of guy I’d furtively steal glances at in my high school locker room, afraid of getting beat up if I stared too long.

In most of Weatiez’s videos, an aggressive rap song plays as he faces the camera then starts flexing his biceps and bouncing around, staring at me with an unsettling mixture of hostility and desire. His appealing, slightly disturbing performance of bodybuilder and rapper poses is one of several Weatiez has posted on YouTube.com, an online video clearinghouse where as many as 43,000 viewers—mostly male—have watched his impromptu shenanigans since he started broadcasting them in April.

Weatiez is far from alone. For whatever reason, young guys who list themselves as straight have decided to display their chiseled physiques on YouTube. They’re building a very large gay male fan base while creating a new forum for the ever-changing dialogue between gay and straight men.

As recently as a year ago, this kind of dynamic for exhibitionism and voyeurism was unheard-of. But YouTube changed all that. After the now-famous Saturday Night Live clip “Lazy Sunday” appeared on the site last December (in which an unknown male duo did a gangsta-rap parody about “the chronic—what!—cles of Narnia”), the site skyrocketed in popularity, and soon people of all ages and persuasions started posting videos of themselves. When I contacted YouTube for this story, their representative declined, citing an “unbelievable amount of interest” in the company.

I discover Weatiez while surfing YouTube and come across a video in which he stands in what looks like a basement, his brown skin contrasting against the white wall behind him. A bare fluorescent bulb is affixed to the ceiling. Wearing a white T-shirt, Weatiez suddenly rips it off his body, WWE style.

Altogether, Weatiez’s videos offer a surprisingly intimate glimpse of the kind of rough-and-tumble jock many gay men, myself included, obsessed over in high school. And judging from the comments posted on this young man’s YouTube profile, many gay men still hold that adolescent fixation. “A ha cool video,” writes “noffin1” about another Weatiez bedroom creation. “Nice with the hat flying onto the head…a bit risky having the pants so low they are almost showing the ood stuff.”

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