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Obama And One-Man, One-Woman Marriage
Sen. Obama reminded us this week that he believes marriage is between a man and a woman, something LGBT people might have easily forgotten over the course of the primary.
An Advocate.com exclusive posted June 20, 2008
Obama And One-Man, One-Woman Marriage

The general election has begun in earnest. Sen. Barack Obama launched his first general election ad in 18 states Thursday and spent much of the week tailoring his image to all those independents who may still find themselves torn between himself and Sen. John McCain.

Politico.com broke a story Wednesday that two Muslim women wearing head scarves were prohibited from sitting behind Sen. Obama at a rally, so as to prevent any unintended photo ops. The campaign issued a statement and contacted the women to apologize, but the message was clear: Obama can’t afford to seem too outside of the mainstream.

That sentiment also surfaced earlier this week when during an interview with ABC’s Jake Tapper, Obama uttered the words so cunningly crafted by the Christian right: marriage is between a man and a woman.

More precisely, Sen. Obama said, “I believe marriage is between a man and a woman,” shortly after being asked if he opposed same-sex marriage, to which he responded, “Yes.” This positioning is not new for Sen. Obama. He has uttered those words plenty – during a debate with Alan Keyes in 2004, on the Senate floor in 2006, even in his 2007 Human Rights Campaign candidate questionnaire.

But if LGBT people across the country bristled at the one-man, one-woman construction, they can be forgiven. After scouring the web, drawing upon memory and scanning my notes, this reporter cannot remember the senator using those words during the entire primary season from January right through until Sen. Hillary Clinton conceded the race to Obama on June 7. In fact, I don’t believe he has used them in any one of the 20-some Democratic debates.

Why now? Welcome to the general election say the pundits. One Democratic strategist and TV pundit who agreed to speak on the condition of anonymity said the language is intended to send a signal to swing state voters that Sen. Obama isn’t the crazy liberal they’ve been told he is. “That’s language that's required,” he said.

But on the bright side, he added that Sen. Obama followed his man-woman statement with: “I also think that same-sex partners should be able to visit each other in hospitals, they should be able to transfer property, they should be able to get the same federal rights and benefits that are conferred onto married couples.”

Indeed, the concept of a presidential candidate supporting civil unions was considered a serious liability as recently as 2004 when people wondered whether Howard Dean would be lambasted in a general election for signing Vermont’s civil unions bill into law.

“Obama is saying he wants the federal government to recognize whatever the states decide to sanction,” said the strategist. “That's progressive and that was unthinkable just 4 years ago.”

Paul Begala, a Democratic strategist who is not working for any campaigns, found Sen. Obama’s statement on gay marriage rather unremarkable given his previous proclamations on the issue. “I thought it sounded like the standard line for him,” said Begala, who is an Obama supporter. “And I have to say as a political consultant, this is where you don’t want to make news. It hurts your consistent position. He is where most people are, which is, we want to have civil unions, we want to have equal rights. But a lot of people get off the train on the word ‘marriage,’ and so you show respect for that.”

That may be true, but any number of gays and lesbians would like a little respect too – especially those same-sex couples who are already married in Massachusetts and California. If you cup your ears and listen closely you can almost hear them grumbling, “Btw, Sen. Obama, marriage is no longer simply between a man and a woman. At least, ours isn’t.”

Surely, the LGBT folks associated with the campaign are working feverishly behind the scenes to find a work-around for that phrase – one with the added benefit of being accurate. Only time will tell whether they prevail. Begala reminds us that this political season will be a fight for the center that we have not witnessed in about 15 years, back when Ross Perot managed to draw enough independent votes (almost 20%) to hand Bill Clinton the presidency in 1992.

“The last two elections the country was so deeply polarized, and Bush won because he realized there really were no independents left,” Begala said. “So, yes, there’s a bigger pot of independent voters. And, interestingly, each party has nominated the candidate who, in the primaries, demonstrated the strongest ability to get independent votes.”

Eleveld is news editor of The Advocate.
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  • Name: Art M.
    Date posted: 2008-07-14 2:13 PM
    Hometown: San Francisco, CA

    Comment:

    "this reporter cannot remember the senator using those words during the entire primary season from January right through until Sen. Hillary Clinton conceded the race to Obama on June 7" Then you didn't try very hard. All it takes is an about.com search for "Obama" and "Gay Rights". In an interview with the Chicago Daily Tribune made LONG before Hillary was forced to concede, Obama cowardly said, "I'm a Christian. And so, although I try not to have my religious beliefs dominate or determine my political views on this issue, I do believe that tradition, and my religious beliefs say that marriage is something sanctified between a man and a woman." SO EAT YOUR WORDS.


  • Name: mark
    Date posted: 2008-06-26 6:01 PM
    Hometown: los feliz

    Comment:

    Look, Obama only cares about one issue. And that's getting elected. Period. He is the most phony, most insincere candidate we've had in ages. He's all cheap talk and empty, meaningless promises. It's laughable. Meanwhile, his speeches are banal, they have the depth of sky mall catalogue motivational posters at best. Just why everybody seems so hopelessly enamored with drinking his Kool-Aid I shall never know. . .


  • Name: Xavier Chapa
    Date posted: 2008-06-25 6:02 PM
    Hometown: Hamburg, Germany

    Comment:

    In addition to not standing for gay equality Obama has recently decided to embrace a compromise on FISA legislation. What do you Obama supporters say to that?


  • Name: Javier
    Date posted: 2008-06-25 5:52 PM
    Hometown: Los Angeles

    Comment:

    Jason W. The only loser is you. How could you support another candidate unwillling to recognize the imporatance of gay equality? It baffles me


  • Name: Mark Hafen
    Date posted: 2008-06-25 1:30 PM
    Hometown: Tampa, FL

    Comment:

    I'm registered Green (for all the good that does in FL), and often cannot stomach either candidate put forward by the two major parties. I can't be a one-issue voter, though...so in the interest of getting this country going in a new direction, I'm going to vote for Obama. While I'm really disappointed in Obama's stance on same-sex unions, I'm not the least bit surprised. It would not have been different with *any* of the other Democratic candidates except Dennis Kucinich and Mike Gravel. So once again, I will have to hold my nose and vote for a candidate that only partly matches my values. But some day, Comrades, when the revolution comes...


  • Name: Jason W.
    Date posted: 2008-06-25 11:34 AM
    Hometown: Colorado

    Comment:

    The ADVOCATE and so many others need to GET OVER the FACT that Hillary Clinton LOST. Let's embrace the winner and not represent our community as a bunch of SORE losers! Had Hillary WON - I would expect the other side to get over it as well! OBAMA 2008! Now, let's take back the WHITE HOUSE!!


  • Name: Michael B
    Date posted: 2008-06-25 10:35 AM
    Hometown: Tucson, AZ

    Comment:

    Apparently everyone who beleives supporting gays is a losing issue this election can't seem to answer this question...Where were the family values voters in November 2006? Obama has no good excuse to ignore gay voters. It can only mean Obama doesn't believe gays and lesbians should be treated equally. Not a winning position, Obama.


  • Name: Samantha
    Date posted: 2008-06-25 10:18 AM
    Hometown: Poultney, VT

    Comment:

    This article made me so incredibly sad... I thought for the first time in a long time, I would not have to choose between the lesser of two evils when I head to the voting booth. Barack Obama was a candidate which both excited and inspired me. I thought that this would be a new turning point in history for our country. How can a black man who has experienced the reality of discrimination fails to support equality for gay Americans? Now, he is merely another mid road Democrat too afraid to speak his mind because he fears losing centerist votes. I had hope, now I have dispair.


  • Name: Tom Kidd
    Date posted: 2008-06-25 2:29 AM
    Hometown: Decatur, Illinois

    Comment:

    What the hell are we gonna do, brothers and sisters? *sigh!* As for me, I'm gonna bite the pillow and vote for Obama. . . . . . because we're dead ducks with John McCain. If you've got a better workable solution, I'd love to hear it.


  • Name: Scott
    Date posted: 2008-06-24 4:29 PM
    Hometown: Tampa. FL

    Comment:

    So the next time I see Obama can I tell him that I'm not comfortable with African Americans using the same water fountain, therefore we should ease up on the movement for racial equality? The fact that the Senator cannot see that separate does not mean equal really bothers me. Listen, you either get it or you don't . . . Obama (and many others, including some of the posters here) do not get it. Quit being namby pamby queers. We will never get the respect we deserve until we hold Senator Obama, and other people we choose to lead us, accountable.


  • Name: Bill
    Date posted: 2008-06-23 7:58 PM
    Hometown: Upland, CA

    Comment:

    As far as California is concerned, as well-intentioned as even some celebrities may be, "it ain't over, until it's over". While I personally think gays and lesbians should have the option of marriage, should they so choose to do so, there are those who are so virulently opposed to it that they have mustered the required number of signatures for a ballot-measure to ban marriage in the State of California, altogether. Until this issue is resolved at the ballot box, once and for all, this November, it ain't over. THEN it will be over. If you want to do something, vote NO on that proposed state constitutional amendment. Gavin Newsom tried this, back in 2004 and his efforts were reversed. The State Supreme Court's efforts could also be reversed, despite the comments of Governor Schwarzenegger, saying he would not support a ballot measure for a constitutional amendment.


  • Name: Leonard Myron
    Date posted: 2008-06-23 6:23 PM
    Hometown: Edgewater, New Jersey

    Comment:

    It's easy to understand the trepidation on the part of many gay men and women to vote for Obama, especially since he has rearticulated his opposition to gay marriage. However, we must not cut our gay noses off to spite our faces. When one considers the future of the Supreme Court, Cabinet appointments and federal judgeships, it becomes important for all of us to support Barak Obama. Do we want to add to the right wingers in our judicial system? I agree that Barak is not perfect, but he's far better than the alternative, especially in terms of who he will appoint to these very important positions.


  • Name: Allison
    Date posted: 2008-06-23 4:20 PM
    Hometown: Denver, CO

    Comment:

    To Jonathan in Lewiston: HOW DARE YOU NOT VOTE?! The person who quoted King above is absolutely right. Our lives DO begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter. And if you don't vote, you are contributing to the problem, not being part of the solution. Don't you want to see some kind of equality for gay and lesbian couples who wish for their relationships to be officially recognized by society? If you don't vote, NOTHING will change. Did you know we speak English instead of German here in the U.S. because of one person's vote? (So don't think yours won't matter.) If you don't want to vote for Obama b/c you are disgruntled w/ the Democrats, fine, but GOOD GOD VOTE FOR SOMEBODY!! Do you know how many other countries in the world would like to have the chance to have elections like we are able to have here? Since you don't vote, why don't u move to one of them?


  • Name: Craig
    Date posted: 2008-06-23 3:55 PM
    Hometown: Seattle

    Comment:

    I didn't 'really' hear someone say they were going to "vote for Nadar", did I? Don't they understand that Ralph Nadar is the reason the whole Bush Machine rose to power in the first place in 2000?? If you vote for that "long-ago has-been" for any reason you're, by default, casting a vote for John McSame. What is it these people "don't get" about this?


  • Name: Dave Parker
    Date posted: 2008-06-23 1:13 PM
    Hometown: Los Angeles, CA

    Comment:

    Beside, when the case from the same-sex couple from Kentucky or South Dakota who were married in California and are suing their state under Article 4 of the Constitution to honor their marriage reaches the Supreme Court, and Justice Stevens has retired, who do you want to appoint the judge who will undoubtedly be the swing vote? I don't really like the idea of holding your nose to vote for a politician, but, as Chris said . . .


  • Name: Debra
    Date posted: 2008-06-23 12:48 PM
    Hometown: Nashville

    Comment:

    I remember the Logo debate when this question was asked, and Obama indicated that because of his faith he is now and forever against gay Marriage but is for the rights of civil unions. Hillary's position was "we can do civil unions", but never said she felt marriage was between a man and a woman. She is the realist having lived through the vitriol of the 90's. That's where DOMA came from...it was something the Democratic president could do with a Rep. Congress in control to stop the tidal wave that was demanding action. I am still hoping Hillary will be our nominee, but in the meantime, I don't know what to think of this man. He scares me, and he pisses me off constantly. I can't vote republican....what's a girl to do? Spain sounds good.


  • Name: Xavier Chapa
    Date posted: 2008-06-23 10:44 AM
    Hometown: Hamburg, Germany

    Comment:

    It's so tiring to constantly hear gay people undermine their equality because "it's not the right time" If you are gay and live, work, pay taxes in the US you deserve just as much equality and protection as hetero citizens...End of discussion! The brave leaders who pushed for gay marriage in Massachusetts and California didn't make excuses for what the general public thought? Why should any of you? These examples of democracy should inspire us to forward the fight. As we approach the general election, we need to consider a candidate who is unafraid to stand behind what is right, and so far Obama has NOT proven to be that person for gays. His attempt to court a 5-6% socially conservative independent vote is not the "change" candidate that he proclaimed to be at the start of his campaign. He's a "safe" candidate.


  • Name: Joe
    Date posted: 2008-06-23 10:43 AM
    Hometown: Fort Worth

    Comment:

    As long as politicians continue to pander to the christian right, they will continue to give them power. I'm an Obama supporter (though less so now from this latest development), but it's sad to see him or his handlers believing that the right will vote for him just b/c he believes "marriage is b/t a man and a woman." The right already have it in their heads that he's a Muslim, so they won't be voting for him no matter what he says.


  • Name: IT
    Date posted: 2008-06-23 1:21 AM
    Hometown: Boston

    Comment:

    Oh, come on. The race is Obama vs. McCain. So if you don't vote for Obama, you are de facto voting for McCain. So you REALLY think McCain will be better for our community?? Obama is basically FOR federal civil unions. When was the last Dem who was in favor of that? So we make progress, slowly. But the direction is favorable. Heck, a federal civil union would sure be better than what we have now, which last time I looked is NOTHING. And never forget that the Clintons threw our community under the train with Don't Ask Don't Tell.


  • Name: Addie
    Date posted: 2008-06-22 8:14 PM
    Hometown: Lowell, Ma

    Comment:

    I truly think that Obama, though not completly sold on Gay Marriage, would vote for it, but as he is a great Politician, won't speak on it, and instead will stay in a gray area until he is President, and can fully say whether he is or is not for Gay and Lesbian Marriage.


  • Name: Hope
    Date posted: 2008-06-22 7:29 PM
    Hometown: Hudson, IL

    Comment:

    OMG, don't be ridiculous. You can not vote fro Nadar or anyone else but Obama. Of course he is saying that garbage about marriage, he would also agree that it is a states rights issue, which it is. Obama 08!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


  • Name: Matt
    Date posted: 2008-06-22 5:40 PM
    Hometown: Riverside

    Comment:

    McCain is encouraging Californians to vote to amend the constitution to ban same-sex marriage. If Obama encourages voters to vote no on the amendment, then I'll vote for him.


  • Name: AdvocateBias
    Date posted: 2008-06-22 6:19 AM
    Hometown: Virgina

    Comment:

    I heard Obama interviewed on Gay marriage on TV, and he left the door open to favor gay marriage in the future. I was very surprised, but he basically said that it's always possible that he changes his position in the future. Very far from what this article says. I guess this is more of the Advocate/Hillary bias. Hey Advocate, get with the program. Obama is our nominee now.


  • Name: Warren
    Date posted: 2008-06-22 3:42 AM
    Hometown: Avon,CT

    Comment:

    I'd say if the Advocate has an editorial opinion on pro-hilary or anti obama fine, but I certainly still think it is a fine magazine, upon subscribing to it, I certainly learned much that was kept from me while "trying" to follow a fundamentalist christian sect. I can think for myself now and decide just how in the dark many christians are kept, myself included at the time about gay issues. For instance "they" the christians tought that there is a gay recruitment going on about which I do not believe any longer. If there is recruitment it is christian groups doing it. hooray to the Advocate, maybe not perfect, but better then a lot...


  • Name: Paul
    Date posted: 2008-06-22 12:29 AM
    Hometown: San Francisco, CA

    Comment:

    Reality check -- Obama is a politician, albeit a good one with a great biography and communications skills. He will be infintely better than Bush has been and much better than McCain. I was with Hillary because she had more experience. Neither of them is where they should be on marriage, and Obama will move to the middle (already is) because that is where politicians go to win...which in the end is the ONLY way to accomplish anything!


  • Name: Dawn
    Date posted: 2008-06-21 11:58 PM
    Hometown: Media, PA

    Comment:

    I supported Hillary during her campaign. Not because she said everything I wanted to hear; Hillary could have won the election. Again, the Democratic Party provides a candidate who cannot win states in the mid-west. Heck, he couldn't even win the big states again Hillary. Sorry, you might as well get ready for 4 more years of the stupidity. Thank you DNC for support someone else because it isn't a Clinton. Does it bother me that Obama doesn't support Gay Marriage? No. If I get a civil union (or DP) providing me with all the same rights as a straight couple, great! We can work on getting the naming changed down the road. Let's just get legal rights today.


  • Name: Steve
    Date posted: 2008-06-21 9:00 PM
    Hometown: New York City

    Comment:

    To those like Wasup who think that the Advocate is Obama-bashing, well this is called knowing about who you are voting for. I was a Hillary supporter, and now I am behind Obama 100% because he is far and away better than the alternative. But, I need to know Obama and every other candidate's stance on the issues that are important to me. Will him not supporting gay "marriage" keep me from voting for him? NO, I am not a single issue voter. I knew that Hillary did not support gay "marriage" either, and I wholeheartedly helped to vote her into office twice here in NY. Is she perfect? of course not! But you vote for who will do the job and represent you the best, not who is God. So get behind Obama on health care, ending the war in Iraq, solving our energy crisis, the economy, etc., and help him along to change his views on marriage. Vote for the best of the available and viable candidates. But vote and don't throw that right and responsibility away!!


  • Name: Wasup?
    Date posted: 2008-06-21 6:43 PM
    Hometown: Purple Swing State

    Comment:

    I have a huge problem with the Advocate/Advocate.com about this. There are plenty of gays for Obama, but the "gay establishment" of Advocate.com, etc. was for Hillary. It's time to get over it. We can either have the mega-progressive Obama who will likely support every other gay issue we have, and who will appoint lots of pro-gay marriage people, or more repugnantcants. The time to demand from him is once he's in office.


  • Name: Randalf P
    Date posted: 2008-06-21 4:25 PM
    Hometown: Orange County, CA

    Comment:

    I agree with Wasup? Why does the Advocate continue to play this same song. Obama cannot say he is for gay marriage. That would doom his campaign. Most of these readers know this. Yet you all jump on these ridiculous bandwagons looking for rainbows. Every gay person in this country should VOTE FOR OBAMA, it is that simple. Do not stay home, do not look for Nader, do not vote for McCain. We must help change history or be doomed.


  • Name: michael
    Date posted: 2008-06-21 2:47 PM
    Hometown: vancouver

    Comment:

    "Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.” “In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.” “Freedom is never voluntarily given by the oppressor; it must be demanded by the oppressed.” “The hope of a secure and livable world lies with disciplined nonconformists who are dedicated to justice, peace and brotherhood” These are the wise words of Dr, Martin Luther King. They inspire me to not I sell nor compromise my soul anymore. I will not vote for one oppressor just because the chains he binds me with are a bit more comfortable than those of the other oppressor. To those of you who are trying to manipulate and shame people for choosing to take a solid stand for once in their lives by refusing to take crumbs from the masters table I tell you to read and re-read the second quote of Dr. Kings.


  • Name: Marc Paige
    Date posted: 2008-06-21 1:55 PM
    Hometown: Ft. Lauderdale

    Comment:

    Obama being for all the federal rights of marriage for gay couples, is lightyears ahead of John McCain being against any type of recognition for gay couples. End of story.


  • Name: Chris
    Date posted: 2008-06-21 1:03 PM
    Hometown: Worcester MA

    Comment:

    I actually just applied for the HRC credit card (that's the Human Rights Campaign not Hillary). Every purchase made earns points for the cause. I may not be from CA, but I fought for marriage in my state and willing to help out in all others.


  • Name: Staci
    Date posted: 2008-06-21 12:05 PM
    Hometown: Pasadena, CA

    Comment:

    To Tom in Houston, I hate to break it to you but Hillary wasn't for marriage rights either. Both candidates tap danced around the issue. And Obama supported a FULL repeal of DOMA, while Hillary supported only a partial repeal during the primary, so he is actually more gay friendly than she was. Not to mention, he at least doesn't pretend we don't exist. He mentions the LGBT community in speeches, and that is more than she ever did for us. He isn't perfect, he is far from it, but if you honestly think that he is no better than McCain then you are sorely mistaken. He would end Don't Ask Don't Tell, support ENDA, and opposes DOMA. As someone who just got married in California on Tuesday, I feel far more comfortable with him on the ballot in my state. The young people who are galvanized by him are far more likely to vote no on the amendment than the older people who supported Hillary.


  • Name: Tom
    Date posted: 2008-06-21 11:28 AM
    Hometown: Houston

    Comment:

    I was (am) a Hillary supporter and was having a hard time shifting to the Obama camp. Well I was almost there and now I'm not again. I certainly will not give any money to a candidate who does not support Gay Marriage - just the way I feel. Although the judge thing is something to think about I don't know if I'll show up on election day to vote for someone who says marriage is between a man and a woman. Nadar here I come?? Who knows - just know that this is one more reason for me not to vote for Obama - and I'm searching for reasons to do so.


  • Name: Jay
    Date posted: 2008-06-21 9:12 AM
    Hometown: New Orleans

    Comment:

    Chris, your position is mine. Assuming that Obama does not choose Nunn or some other homophobe as his VP, I plan to vote for him and support him to my friends and relatives. However, the money that I might have donated to his campaign (which he doesn't need in any case), I am directing toward protecting gay marriage in California. I have already donated some and will be donating more. Winning the California referendum is crucial.


  • Name: Karen
    Date posted: 2008-06-21 7:57 AM
    Hometown: Kentucky

    Comment:

    Jonathan, I hope that you change your mind. Any politician who agreed with the lgbt movement on all issues could not get elected. Obama and democrats generally are going to adopt policies and make appointments that are far more favorable to gays than would McCain and republicans. I do not understand why anybody with progressive or liberal views would stay home, vote for a third party or vote for McCain. On Inauguration Day, 7 of the justices on the Supreme Court will be 70 or over. Obama would nominate judges who have an expansive view of the Constitution. Obama cannot say that he is for gay marriage, but he is for equal rights and the judges that he nominates would be far more likely to find that gays have a fundamental right to marry and are entitled to equal protection.


  • Name: Chris
    Date posted: 2008-06-21 7:50 AM
    Hometown: Worcester, Ma

    Comment:

    I think there needs to be a dictionary in this entire debate. First off, we are fighting for "marriage" within the eyes of the law not religion. We are not focussing on same-sex "holy matrimony". That's a debate for another day. We have this requirement in the federal constitution that requires seperation of church and state. This works both ways. The Christian Right cannot tell the government and non-believers what a legal marriage should be. And the government cannot tell the church what the requirements are in "holy matrimony". We in the gay community need to educate the rest on this distinction. Also, Obama said he doesn't "support" gay marriage. That doesn't mean he'll stop it either. That's fine, we'll find advocates else where. I'm a Hillary fan but I'll vote for the lesser of 2 evils (Obama) in the general election. I just won't "support" him with $ and volunteer time.


  • Name: Shawn
    Date posted: 2008-06-21 5:29 AM
    Hometown: Boston

    Comment:

    This is to Jonathan. It is your choice..but I hope you get up and vote...you are on a boo hoo pity pot. If u r truly gay, get off your bum and do something...Everyone forgets that the NEXT president will most likely appoint judges to the High court, if anything this should give u some motivation.


  • Name: Wasup?
    Date posted: 2008-06-21 5:04 AM
    Hometown: Purple Swing State

    Comment:

    Why is the Advocate so anti-Obama? The primary coverage was horrible, and this? Was Hillary any better? Do we really expect a presidential candidate to be in favor of marriage rights? Was Bill Clinton? George Bush? He's miles ahead of John "BobDole" McCain. And he's in favor of almost all other gay issues...


  • Name: Jonathan
    Date posted: 2008-06-20 7:29 PM
    Hometown: Lewiston

    Comment:

    I left the democratic party in 2004, after growing tired of the hypocrasy and broken promises. One party hates us to our faces, the other hates us behind our backs. I prefer to be an independent. A registered independent, who doesnt vote. And when the volunteers call, and call, I tell them WHY I don't vote. To me that has more power than any 'write-in' I could put on election day.


  • Name: Chris Sullivan
    Date posted: 2008-06-20 6:10 PM
    Hometown: Chicago, IL

    Comment:

    As disheartening as it is to hear this - Obama has no choice but to play the game - and the practical reality is that the majority of people in this country are not comfortable with gay marriage ... yet. This will definitely have to be approached incrementally. It does the GLBT rites movement no good to force his hand, alienate too many independents and then lose the general election. Let him get into office first, then lets see where he goes. I don't expect him to suddenly support gay marriage, but he damn well better not support a Constitutional Amendment against it either. We already know where McCain is on gay marriage overall, even if he doesn't support a Federal Amendment persay, he has supported looking to ban it that has asked for his suppoprt. McCain isn't expecting the GLBT vote and Obama can't afford not to have it.


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