Adam D. Blum

There may be a reason so many queer men cannot sit still for long, says our advice columnist, Adam Blum.

Our love and sex columnist offers advice on how to start making yourself priority number one.

The short answer is yes, writes our love and sex columnist, psychotherapist Adam D. Blum.

The first step is admitting you're not entirely satisfied, writes our love and sex columnist. 

Our love and sex columnist on the pressure to be flawless.

Our love and sex columnist helps a couple understand the genesis of frustrating behavior.

The male sex drive doesn't have to ruin a good thing, our love and sex columnist writes. 

Our advice columnist Adam Blum shares tips on dealing with the fidgety 40s and 50s.

A young man questions the necessity of disclosure.

Our love and sex columnist on navigating rules that leave everyone satisfied.

Those fights about laundry aren't always about dirty clothes, says our love and sex columnist.

Our love and sex columnist advises that dependency can be a good thing, in response to a reader who is anxious about his open relationship.

Our advice columnist, Adam Blum of San Francisco's Gay Therapy Center, on the conflict over desire and personal objectives.

Get ready to work, but the payoff is worth it.

Our advice columnist, Adam Blum of San Francisco's Gay Therapy Center, says don't be ashamed to tell your partner you want him home more — and what you want him to do once he's there.