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Get Wild This V-Day With These Sexy Gifts for Lovers

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It may still be a bit chilly outside, but this Valentine's Day consider giving your lover(s) a little something to heat things up indoors.

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Forget the cards and flowers this year and give your Valentine something a little more sensual this year. Here are some of our sexiest suggestions:

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Receiver Relief
When it comes to size and penetration, sometimes less is more. Yes, a lengthy member is impressive to behold, but it can also be a pain for a partner to accommodate. That's where the Bumper Thrust Buffer by Perfect Fit can help. This product is designed for the comfort and pleasure of both the well-endowed man and his bottoming partner. Its two-part patented design provides a soft latex cushion that decreases the length of penetration while still permitting hot and heavy, full-throttled thrusting. Also included is a separate Donut that can be used alone or with the Bumper. There are even instructional videos available on YouTube.
(MySecretLuxury.com, $60)

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A Woman's Best Friend
Wet for Her, an innovative company that creates sex and pleasure products designed for queer women by queer women, has introduced its latest avant-garde sex toy just in time for V-Day. Designed by company founder Alice Derock and based on extensive research, the WowHer is a sleek and versatile clitoris stimulator that fits securely over dildos -- or fingers -- to provide direct stimulation at the same time as penetration. It also comes with a rechargeable battery and USB port, is splash proof, and is available in your choice of black, purple, or pink (WetForHer.com, $50)

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Bunny Rubbers
Playboy has introduced its own line of condoms, lube, and other sexy items via Respect Your Partner(s), a creative new campaign to help promote healthy, consensual, and safe sex practices. Playboy worked with Thai Nippon Rubber Industry, one of the largest condom manufacturers in the world, to create the new line. Nothing says "sex" quite like that iconic bunny logo on the wrapper. (PlayboyCondoms.com, prices vary)

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Naturally Slick
Desert Harvest, maker of all-natural health and wellness products including skin care and vitamins, now has a line of sexual health products. Our favorite is Aloe Glide, a 100 percent natural, super-clean sexual lubricant and vaginal moisturizer that combines the therapeutic properties of aloe vera with other organic ingredients to enhance pleasure -- without risking genital tissue damage or related infection. Aloe Glide is the only aloe vera-based sexual lubricant without sodium benzoate (a preservative that can cause a vaginal pH imbalance). It's also unscented and nonsticky, and is compatible with latex and polyisoprene condoms. Also try Desert Harvest's Aloe companion towelettes (12-pack, $7) that clean, soothe, and reduce odor without disrupting healthy vaginal flora. (DesertHarvest.com, prices vary)

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