As we mourn the
tragic slaying of 15-year-old Lawrence King, few of us
realize that his death is part of a growing epidemic that is
claiming the life of another gender-nonconforming
young person every couple of months.
His killing has
been universally termed a "gay hate crime" of
unique violence, but there is reason to doubt both
these claims, which obscure a larger truth.
King's
killing was far from unique. GenderPAC, the organization I
head, has long tracked crimes against
gender-nonconforming people. By our count, 59 such
people have been murdered since 1995. The most recent
victim, Simmie Williams Jr., was shot and killed February 22
in Fort Lauderdale, Fla.
Like Larry, most
victims were biologically male but presenting
femininely. And most perpetrators, all males, attacked
others their own age: Almost two thirds of the known
assailants attacked victims within five years of their
own age.
And like Larry,
they were young: Almost one third of the victims were
teenagers. As more young people see gender as the next
frontier and test the boundaries of gender
transgression, more are dying.
But there are
some things about this horrific killing that really are
unique, beginning with the fact that so many people are
hearing about it. Only about 20% of the fatal assaults
GenderPAC documented generated anything like the kind
of sustained mainstream media coverage King's
killing received.
Second,
authorities in the King case labeled the killing a hate
crime. Three quarters of the hate-crime cases
GenderPAC tracked were not so classified, often
despite clear evidence of bias.
Third,
King's assailant was caught. If you fatally assault a
young person because of his or her gender expression,
odds are on your side that you'll get away with
it: In 54% of the cases GenderPAC tracked, the
assailants are still free -- versus only 31% for homicides
nationally.
The vast majority
of these killings appear to be attempts by young males
to enforce codes of masculinity and punish gender
transgression through extreme violence. This does
parallel the King case.
Eighth-grade
classmate Michael Sweeney was quoted by the Los Angeles
Times as saying that King "would come to school in
high-heeled boots, makeup, jewelry, and painted nails
-- the whole thing. That was freaking the guys
out." Though the Times reported that in the days
before the attack King had made it known he had a
crush on McInerney, doesn't it seem likely that
McInerney was motivated not just by King's
self-proclaimed gayness but by his gender expression as
well?
But there is this
weird kind of erasure in the gay community around
gender. When a gay kid is attacked, it's a
"gay hate crime." Somehow gayness is
never really about gender, unless it's transgender,
and then of course it's not gay.
Well, this young
generation is about to trample the carefully manicured
hedges we've grown between orientation and gender.
They neither see nor observe the bright-line
distinctions between L, G, B, and T -- forever
discrete and distinct -- that we have worked so hard to
maintain.
Our assailants
are enraged by how we look, act, and dress -- our gender.
We camp it up; we wear high-heeled boots or even mascara.
Like frail, blond Matthew Shepard, we fail to be
paragons of masculinity, or like 15-year-old Sakia
Gunn, we go out at night dressed like boys.
Even when
homosexuality is per se at the root of a killing, what is
fear and loathing of homosexuality for most males but
dread of losing one's masculinity, dread of all
that is seen as weak or feminine?
This gender
hatred is one reason so many of the assaults have been so
spectacularly vicious. Half the young victims GenderPAC has
documented since 1995 were attacked with some
combination of shooting, bludgeoning, and stabbing.
Many were assaulted further even after the victim was
clearly dead.
Perhaps this
gender hatred is also part of what lies behind King's
killing. His assailant planned the attack in advance and
shot him twice in the head. These are the actions of
an assailant who wanted to not just kill but
annihilate, to obliterate something that offends him so
deeply, the only response is brutal rage.
How can we combat
this kind of hatred as a community until we fully
understand and acknowledge its roots?