Most states don't
recognize gay marriage -- but now Hallmark does.
The nation's
largest greeting card company is rolling out same-sex
wedding cards -- featuring two tuxedos, overlapping hearts,
or intertwined flowers -- with best wishes
inside. ''Two hearts. One promise,'' one says.
Hallmark added
the cards after California joined Massachusetts as the
only U.S. states with legal gay marriage. A handful of other
states have recognized same-sex civil unions.
The language
inside the cards is neutral, with no mention of wedding or
marriage, making them also suitable for a commitment
ceremony. Hallmark says the move is a response to
consumer demand, not any political pressure.
''It's our goal
to be as relevant as possible to as many people as we
can,'' Hallmark spokeswoman Sarah Gronberg Kolell said.
Hallmark's
largest competitor, American Greetings Corp., has no plans
to enter the market, saying its current offerings are
general enough to speak to a lot of different
relationships.
Hallmark started
offering ''coming-out'' cards last year, and the four
designs of same-sex marriage cards are being gradually
released this summer and will be widely available by
next year. No sales figures were available yet.
''When I have
shopped for situations like babies or weddings for gay
friends I have good luck in quirky stores,'' said Kathryn
Hamm, president of the website GayWeddings.com.
''But if you are
just in a generic store...the bride and groom symbol or
words are in most cards,'' she said. ''It becomes difficult
to find some that are neutral but have some style.''
The Williams
Institute at the University of California, Los
Angeles, School of Law estimates that more than 85,000
same-sex couples in the United States have entered
into a legal relationship since 1997, when Hawaii
started offering some legal benefits to same-sex
partners.
It estimates
nearly 120,000 more couples will marry in California during
the next three years -- and that means millions of potential
dollars for all sorts of wedding industry businesses.
Hallmark, known
more for its Midwest mores than progressive greetings,
has added a wider variety lately. It now offers cards for
difficulty getting pregnant or going through rehab. At
any given time Hallmark has 200 different wedding
cards on the market, including some catering to
interracial or interreligious marriages and blended
families.
Advocate.com
first reported that Hallmark pulled a controversial card
last year that featured the punch line ''Too queer? Yeah, I
thought so too'' after it was criticized by some
customers.
The Greeting Card
Association, a trade group, says it does not track how
many companies provide same-sex cards but believes the
number is expanding.
''The fact that
you have someone like Hallmark going into that niche
shows it's growing and signals a trend,'' said Barbara
Miller, a spokeswoman for the association.
Rob Fortier, an
independent card maker who runs his company, Paper Words,
out of New York, added same-sex wedding cards to his mix
after thinking about what he would want to receive.
''A lot of people
think a gay greeting card needs a rainbow on it,''
Fortier said. ''I don't want that.''
But for some
time, it was difficult to even find the words for what
anyone wanted to say, he said.
His first card
poked fun at the challenge. On the outside it featured
lines that had been scratched out: ''Congratulations on
being committed!'', ''Congratulations on being
unionized!'', and finally ''Congratulations on being
domestically partnered!'' The inside wished the couple
congratulations on choosing to be together forever.
''It really comes
down to language,'' he said.
John Stark, one
of the three founders of Three Way Design in Boston,
which makes gay-themed cards for occasions from adoption to
weddings, has several new designs sketched out and
ready.
But he has
hesitated to add more wedding cards to his mix until after
the November election, when California voters will
decide whether to approve a constitutional amendment
that would again limit marriage to a man and a woman
in the state.
''What is scary
is to produce a marriage line, and then November comes
and it's recalled -- then we have thousands of dollars of
inventory waiting,'' he said.
The gay-friendly
business can be challenging, companies said.
Hamm said
although she has found many vendors willing to work with her
company, some have asked to be removed from the website
because of hate mail or some other backlash.
Hallmark says all
of its stores can choose whether to add the latest
offerings. (AP)