Scroll To Top
Politics

Rep. Jayapal's Emotional Speech About Gender-Nonconforming Child

Pramila Jayapal

Endorsing the Equality Act, the congresswoman gave an impassioned speech about her "beautiful" gender-nonconforming child.

Support The Advocate
We're asking for your help to continue our newsroom's important reporting. Support LGBTQ+ journalism by contributing today!

Democratic Congresswoman Pramila Jayapal gave a heartfelt speech about her gender-nonconforming child during a hearing for the Equality Act in Washington D.C., on Tuesday, according to Newsweek.

"And I didn't intend to say this today, but -- excuse me," a tearful Jayapal said.

"My beautiful now 22-year-old child told me last year that they are gender-nonconforming. And over the last year I have come to understand from a deeply personal mother's perspective -- I've always been a civil rights activist. I've always fought for my constituents and communities to have equal rights," she added.

Jayapal, a representative from Washington State, was arguing in favor of the Equality Act, introduced in Congress last month, which would amend federal law to provide a wide range of protections against discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity. It would also ban discrimination not only in employment, but in housing, credit, public accommodations, education, federal financial assistance, and federal jury service.

The congresswoman spoke eloquently about watching her child open up and come into their own when they began identifying as they felt.

"From a mother's perspective I came to understand what their newfound freedom -- it is the only way I can describe what happened to my beautiful child -- what their newfound freedom to wear a dress, to rid themselves of some conformist stereotype of who they are, to be able to express who they are at their real core."

She continued:

"And since this deeply impactful moment last year, my child, who has always done well in school, but has carried what a mother can only describe as a heavy burden of conflict in their own being, that I could not fully identify or help to express.

Since this deeply impactful moment last year, my child's embracing of their non-conforming gender identity and all that it has allowed, all that it allows in terms of their creativity, their brilliance, their self-expression."

"The only thought I wake up with every day is, 'My child is free. My child is free to be who they are.' And in that freedom comes a responsibility for us as legislators to protect that freedom to be who they are and to legislate... our behavior towards all people in our society," Jayapal concluded.

The speech in favor of the Equality Act was widely lauded, including by freshman Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, who tweeted support for Jayapal.

30 Years of Out100Out / Advocate Magazine - Jonathan Groff & Wayne Brady

From our Sponsors

Most Popular

Latest Stories

Tracy E. Gilchrist

Tracy E. Gilchrist is the VP of Editorial and Special Projects at equalpride. A media veteran, she writes about the intersections of LGBTQ+ equality and pop culture. Previously, she was the editor-in-chief of The Advocate and the first feminism editor for the 55-year-old brand. In 2017, she launched the company's first podcast, The Advocates. She is an experienced broadcast interviewer, panel moderator, and public speaker who has delivered her talk, "Pandora's Box to Pose: Game-changing Visibility in Film and TV," at universities throughout the country.
Tracy E. Gilchrist is the VP of Editorial and Special Projects at equalpride. A media veteran, she writes about the intersections of LGBTQ+ equality and pop culture. Previously, she was the editor-in-chief of The Advocate and the first feminism editor for the 55-year-old brand. In 2017, she launched the company's first podcast, The Advocates. She is an experienced broadcast interviewer, panel moderator, and public speaker who has delivered her talk, "Pandora's Box to Pose: Game-changing Visibility in Film and TV," at universities throughout the country.