Once again this
year, the religious right has taken offense at the
so-called war on Christmas. The American Family Association
and other radical religious groups called for a
boycott of Target because of the corporation's
policy of saying "Happy Holidays" instead of
"Merry Christmas." Fox News commentator
John Gibson has written a book on the subject titled
The War on Christmas, which outlines the supposed
excesses of public school districts observing
"holiday parties" and "winter
breaks."
In a recent New
York Times article, Nicholas Kristof wrote that Fox News
has featured the so-called Christmas controversy more than
50 times during the past month.
In this
"controversy," as with the campaign to
"protect marriage" from the horror of
same-sex unions, the uncontested cultural majority seems to
find itself oppressed by the prospect of tolerance and
respect of minorities in our pluralistic society.
Each year, I
happily use the phrase "Happy Holidays" as I
express my sincere wishes to my coreligionists of the
monotheistic faiths: Judaism, Christianity, and Islam.
As various religious and nonreligious holidays occur
during the same period, I find it heartening to see
humankind greeting each other with holiday cheer and
no one left out of the celebration.
As a black
American with an eclectic array of friends and associates, I
am able to celebrate Ramadan as a Muslim, wish my Jewish and
Christian friends a joyful Hanukkah and Christmas
respectively, and honor those who celebrate Kwanzaa
and the winter solstice. Additionally, shortly after
New Year's I celebrate my birthday. Why
wouldn't I want to have and wish everyone a
happy holiday season?
The religious and
political elites of the right have a mistaken belief
that anyone who does not support their beliefs is a
secularist. In efforts to stir up their supporters
through fear, they portray these
"secularists" as having an agenda of cultural
genocide--their evil goal being to eradicate
Christianity from the public discourse. Why do they
not fear the elimination of Islam, Judaism, Buddhism,
Hinduism, Taoism, and other faith systems that
Americans believe in and follow? Such interfaith
concern would be far from the narrowly proscribed truth they
wish to push down the throats of anyone who lives in
America, regardless of faith.
Of course,
conservative Christians have the right to punish
economically businesses that are in opposition to
their beliefs. Under the American legal system, they
also have the right to counter what they believe to be
illegally discriminatory behavior. But they ignore the
responsibility we have as Americans to interact in
public in ways that do not impinge on the religious
freedoms of our fellow American citizens.
When trying to
best serve the general public and not insult those of any
faith, stores, schools, and government entities should
follow clear guidelines that promote a neutral
position because it avoids the appearance, if not the
intent, of imposing one's beliefs on another. The
religious right seems to have fallen for the Grinch
character's belief that taking down the
ubiquitous trappings of Christmas has the power to
destroy the joy in the hearts of believers. The religious
right would do well to learn, as the Grinch did, that
the true meaning of Christmas is not found in
commercial expressions of "Merry Christmas" or
in "my faith is better than yours"
thinking; if the spirit of Christmas is to exist at
all, it must be kept alive in the hearts of believers.
The majority
conservative Christian culture is not being attacked by a
pluralist society. Its desires to impose a narrowly
conservative Christian faith on all Americans is being
tempered so that it does not offend the sensibilities
of most Americans who are perfectly fine with saying
"Happy Holidays." Perhaps if the leaders of
the religious right had the true Christmas spirit in
their hearts, they would avoid insulting friends and
fellow citizens with their insistence on public dogmatism
and spread some peace on earth and goodwill to all
people.