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Homophobic Harasser Tells Gay Jewish New Yorker He's 'Desecrating God'

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Adam Eli, who was wearing a pink yarmulke and other gay-identified items, was harassed by a stranger at a Chelsea subway station.

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A gay Jewish man in New York City has posted a video showing the harassment he endured at a subway station for wearing a pink yarmulke.

Adam Eli was leaving a station in Manhattan's Chelsea neighborhood Sunday when another man, a stranger to him, began yelling at him. "You're desecrating the name of God," the stranger says in the video, which Eli shared on Twitter and which was picked up by several New York media outlets.

"What, because I'm gay and wearing a kippah?" Eli responds, using another word for yarmulke. "Is that why?" He was also carrying a beaded purse and wearing a rainbow Pride patch on his jeans. The harasser follows up by saying, "Stay in the closet. ... Take your kippah off. This is not Judaism." The man calls being gay an abomination as well.

"He started following me and chasing me and yelling at me, and then I realized how angry he was and how intense it was getting, so I started filming," Eli told New York TV station WLNY. Eli eventually went into a store to avoid the man. He did not file a police report, as he thought it would serve no purpose.

Eli noted that many other people in the LGBTQ population suffer much worse. "Look at the hatred and violence that is in this video directed at a cis white man, and now try to imagine the type of venom and hatred and violence that's thrown at trans people and transgender people of color every single day," he told the station.

Mayor Bill de Blasio tweeted support for Eli Monday night and also shared the video, which carries a trigger warning, so be aware that is contains disturbing content.

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Trudy Ring is The Advocate’s senior politics editor and copy chief. She has been a reporter and editor for daily newspapers and LGBTQ+ weeklies/monthlies, trade magazines, and reference books. She is a political junkie who thinks even the wonkiest details are fascinating, and she always loves to see political candidates who are groundbreaking in some way. She enjoys writing about other topics as well, including religion (she’s interested in what people believe and why), literature, theater, and film. Trudy is a proud “old movie weirdo” and loves the Hollywood films of the 1930s and ’40s above all others. Other interests include classic rock music (Bruce Springsteen rules!) and history. Oh, and she was a Jeopardy! contestant back in 1998 and won two games. Not up there with Amy Schneider, but Trudy still takes pride in this achievement.