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Grindr’s 2024 in review from tops to bottoms and from daddy culture to Charli XCX

The gay hookup app has some sexy data on its users. Check it out.

Your jaw will drop when you see Grindr's top naughty stats for 2024

Move over Spotify... these are the EOY rankings we need.

Op-ed: It Is Time to End Bottom-Shaming

Why shaming bottoms allows HIV to keep spreading.

Sweet Home Alabama (and Georgia and Mississippi, Too)

Author and activist Khafre Abif helps young bi and gay black men address HIV in the Deep South -- and in their own lives.

Cameron Wright: the 'provocative' nonbinary singer making waves on 'The Voice'

The contestant isn't afraid to be their authentic self on a major network.

Op-ed: Who Pops the Question — Top or Bottom?

Gay couples have the freedom to reject gender roles, notes our correspondent.

Explores Asian Men Leaving Gay Racism Behind

Asian men falling in love and discovering themselves -- outside of the idealized white stereotype.

Does Internalized Shame Keep Gay Actors From Gay Parts?

Inspired by a story from Rita Moreno, out actors Michael Urie and Drew Droege reflect on how shame can inhibit queer people.

Stop Slut-Shaming Prince Charming

The Advocate's sex columnist, Alexander Cheves, slams criticism of the Finding Prince Charming star's history of sex work.

Bobby Cannavale

He might be best known to gay audiences for his Emmy-winning role as Will's first serious boyfriend, cop Vince D'Angelo, on Will & Grace, but Bobby Cannavale's resume is bedazzled with butch yet queer credits.

What to Wear for My Wedding

If you're planning a wedding, then Steven Petrow's guide, The New Gay Wedding, is truly a practical primer for brides and grooms, their families and guests. Here's an excerpt on how to handle wedding attire.

Now Trending: #GayLifeNoDiversityInSight

The Oscars aren't the only ones with a fixation on straight, white men, according to this writer.

16 Camp Classics That Keep Us Laughing

Camp classic comedies are bigger and more outrageous than life. No wonder gay audiences love them.

Why Effeminate Gays Are Fabulous

Yaaaas, queen.

Gay Porn Gets Creative in Quarantine: Plexiglass, Drones, Solos, Oh My

How does a billion-dollar industry stay operational when social distancing isn't an option? 

Op-ed: How S.F. Pride Has Failed Bradley Manning

Writer Victoria A. Brownworth believes San Francisco Pride's messy grand marshal debacle makes a mockery out of the tradition of pride in general.

'I don't like you tonight'

Week 6 of American Idol turns the battle of the sexes into a very girl-powered grudge match.

Behind the Scenes of Stonewall

Blockbuster director Roland Emmerich brings the landmark riots to the big screen.

TBWA\Chiat\Day LA, Suzy, equalpride Create PRIDE GUIDE for Brands

The Advocate and equalpride have long believed Pride isn't just one month -- that's why we partnered with TBWA\Chiat\Day LA and market research platform Suzy to develop the PRIDE Guide for marketers.

Looking Back: 5 Ways to Totally Lose a Guy in 10 Minutes

Patrick, Dom, Agustin, Kevin, and Mommie Murray fail totally hard.