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Jameela Jamil Comes Out as 'Queer' Amid Ballroom Backlash 

Jameela Jamil Comes Out as 'Queer' Amid Ballroom Backlash 

Jameela Jamil

Amid anger over her casting in a series about the ballroom scene, The Good Place star wrote that she is part of the LGBTQ community. 

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The Good Place star Jameela Jamil came out as queer in a post on Twitter Wednesday, explaining that she did not do it sooner -- in part because of stigma, especially for people in the South Asian community.

Jamil's coming out coincides with the backlash to an announcement earlier this week that she would be a judge on HBO's Legendary, a series that turns ballroom culture into a televised competition. Ballroom, which traditionally centered trans people and people of color, has previously been explored in the documentary Paris is Burning and on the FX series Pose.

The announcement that Jamil, who, as far as anyone knew, was not part of the LGBTQ community, would be the face of the series, sparked immediate outrage on social media, especially at a time when casting trans to tell trans history has gained momentum.

In her post on Twitter Jamil wrote:

"This is why I never officially came out as queer. I added a rainbow to my name a few years ago when I felt ready to a few years ago, as it's not easy within the south Asian community to be accepted, and I always answered honestly if ever straight-up asked about it on Twitter.

But I kept it low because I was scared of the pain of being accused of performative bandwagon jumping over something that caused me a lot of confusion, fear, and turmoil when I was a kid. I didn't come from a family with anyone openly out.

It's also scary as an actor to openly admit your sexuality, especially when you're already a brown female in your thirties."

Jamil, who said she was jumping off of Twitter for a while after posting her story, wrote, "This is absolutely not how I wanted to come out."

She also addressed the backlash to her being chosen for Legendary.

"I know that my being queer doesn't qualify me as ballroom. But I have privilege and power and a large following to bring [in] this show (as does Megan the Stallion) and is beautiful contestants and ballroom hosts," Jami wrote. "Sometimes it takes those with more power to get a show off the ground so we can elevate marginalized stars that deserve the limelight and give them a chance."

Jamil also explained that she is not host or emcee of Legendary but rather a lead judge who has 11 years of hosting experience under her belt. She adds that she comes to ballroom culture with impartiality and "fresh eyes."

The star of the critically acclaimed The Good Place, which just ended its run last week, finished by saying, "To the press, I really just don't want to talk about it. Let's just focus on the contestants of the show until it's out."

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Tracy E. Gilchrist is the VP of Editorial and Special Projects at equalpride. A media veteran, she writes about the intersections of LGBTQ+ equality and pop culture. Previously, she was the editor-in-chief of The Advocate and the first feminism editor for the 55-year-old brand. In 2017, she launched the company's first podcast, The Advocates. She is an experienced broadcast interviewer, panel moderator, and public speaker who has delivered her talk, "Pandora's Box to Pose: Game-changing Visibility in Film and TV," at universities throughout the country.
Tracy E. Gilchrist is the VP of Editorial and Special Projects at equalpride. A media veteran, she writes about the intersections of LGBTQ+ equality and pop culture. Previously, she was the editor-in-chief of The Advocate and the first feminism editor for the 55-year-old brand. In 2017, she launched the company's first podcast, The Advocates. She is an experienced broadcast interviewer, panel moderator, and public speaker who has delivered her talk, "Pandora's Box to Pose: Game-changing Visibility in Film and TV," at universities throughout the country.