It's been a year of some awful bisexual erasure.
December 30 2014 8:00 AM EST
November 17 2015 5:28 AM EST
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This year has not been a great one for bisexual visibility. Time and time again, both straight and gay people have ignored or dismissed bisexuals. In news stories, in interviews with celebrities, and in movies and TV shows, bisexuals were hard to find.
Even though several studies indicate that bisexuals make up the largest portion of the LGBT population, they have some of the worst representation. Here are some of the most glaring examples of bi invisibility in 2014.
The New York Times
Early this year, The New York Times questioned whether bisexuals exist. In "The Scientific Quest to Prove Bisexuality Exists," the Times questioned the legitimacy of bisexuality due to the "lack of" science-based evidence.
Bad Bi Advice
Slate's Dear Prudence has given some bad advice in the past. Her answer to a bisexual woman, encouraging her to stay in the closet, brought an uproar from LGBT activists. GLAAD condemned the advice, calling it "disappointing." Eventually Prudence came around, giving slightly better advice to another bisexual reader.
Celebrities
A few A-list celebrities came out as bisexual, then changed their tune a bit later. First Tom Daley (above) appeared to come out as bisexual, only to say a few months later he was actually gay. Jessie J called her bisexuality a "phase," and Mel B discounted a five-year relationship she had with a woman. It's not unusual for some to come out as bisexual first, but it does play into a "bi now, gay later" fallacy that makes life harder for actual bisexuals who want to come out. Calling bisexuality a "phase" is hurtful and only adds to erasure of bisexual people.
The Millionaire Matchmaker
The reality TV show's star, Patti Stanger (above), added to erasure by claiming bi men don't exist. Stanger said she wouldn't marry a bi guy: "Uh, never! Never. Never. And if they're bisexual, they're gay!" Then, on the second season of her own show, Stanger told a client that bisexual women "are not the women you want to be the mother of your children," reported Out. Stanger loves the gays but is no friend to bisexuals.
Bisexual Jamaican Asylum-Seeker
Orashia Edwards (above), who faced persecution in his home country of Jamaica, was denied asylum in the U.K. this year, as a judge claimed Edwards was "dishonest" about his bisexuality. Edwards is just one of many LGBT people who have been denied asylum by the U.K. -- something LGBT activists claim is no coincidence. Edwards's case is ongoing and has received international attention.
Task Force
During the annual Bisexual Awareness Week in September, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force chose to run a "controversial" blog post trying to erase bisexual people. The post argued that bisexuality was binary and erasing of trans and genderqueer people. After a response from a bisexual trans person and an op-ed published in The Advocate (by the author of this year in review) seeking an apology, the organization removed the blog post and issued the apology. It has changed its name to the National LGBTQ Task Force.